<?xml version="1.0" encoding="iso-8859-1"?><rss version="1.0"><channel><title>Diary of a b</title><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/</link><description>Diary of a b</description><language>en-us</language><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<BR><b style=""><span style="font-size: 18pt;" century="" gothic="" ;=""><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>And how it POURED today...</span></b><span style="font-size: 14pt;" century="" gothic="" ;=""><o:p></o:p></span><br><br><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;" century="" gothic="" ;="">Last month on this same date, I was lamenting the heat of summer and eagerly<br>awaiting the onset of the rainy season...</span><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;" century="" gothic="" ;="">Today, I am smiling and humming to myself as I look out of my office window...<span style=""></span></span><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;" century="" gothic="" ;="">My very own friendly neighborhood hills are verdant green... lush grass, bushes,<br>and trees with their squeaky clean washed wet looks have totally carpeted the<br>countryside...</span><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;" century="" gothic="" ;="">I am happier still that it"s raining hard in Mumbai... I trust the clouds have<br>unloaded their condensation in the catchment areas of the lakes that provide us<br>life saving water...</span><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;" century="" gothic="" ;="">Rain brings magic to our lives.. crops to barren fields... frogs to itsy bitsy ponds... earthworms and snails out of their hiding places... bhuttawalas to our housing complexes...</span><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;" century="" gothic="" ;="">Yes, I know I know.. it also floods low lying areas in Mumbai... and brings our<br>public transport systems (trains and buses) to a halt.. but only transitorily,<br>remember?... only until such time as the low tide sets in taking back the water<br>to the welcoming sea...</span><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;" century="" gothic="" ;="">Meanwhile, children and young adults have had holidays declared in their schools and colleges... some lucky office goers too have had a relaxing time at home...with their near and dear ones...</span><br></p><p class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 14pt;" century="" gothic="" ;="">Getting wet, having innocent fun, singing and dancing in the rain, some rounds of galli cricket, rides out of town on motorbikes... Aren"t all these little pleasures such an important part of life too?!</span><br><br></p><br><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/155/8a5a55415a9baf28e03684776ee5263b/homep/images/1215073905">]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 01 Jul 2008 17:41:43 +0530</pubDate><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/07/01/And-how-it-POURED-today-nb.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<BR><div style="text-align: center; font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><font size="5">Yearning for Rain</font></span><br><br><br><br><font size="4">Yesterday afternoon, summer's heat reached its very peak<br>surely it can"t rise any more without annihilating us each...<br><br>Last night, I dreamed of three peacocks dancing in the jungle<br>perhaps there my wishful thinking and fantasies did mingle...<br><br>At dawn today, I heard a duet sung by a myena and a koel<br>these harbingers of the rains were surely telling us a tale...<br><br>This morning, I actually heard my ancestor the frog croak<br>don"t tell me it"s just my wild imagination going berserk...<br><br>Appearing, one after the other, are these monsoon omens <br>I beg you, mother nature, do send us your bountiful rains soon!<br></font><br></div><br><br><br><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/155/8a5a55415a9baf28e03684776ee5263b/homep/images/1212289009">]]></description><pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 08:12:54 +0530</pubDate><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/06/01/Yearning-for-RainYesterday-afternoo.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<BR><div style="text-align: center; font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;"><font size="5"><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>Glorious Nature</span></font><br><br><br><font size="4">As I glance out of my bedroom window tonight<br>I see somethings - far away, almost out of sight<br><br>Twinkling stars peeping out from behind a cloud puff<br>I wonder if they are playing a game of blind man's bluff<br><br>I also see the huge orb of a moon, bright and all a-glimmer<br>In the pitch dark night, it really seems to gleam and shimmer<br><br>I realise once again that nature in all its glory is so very wonderful<br>With such lovely sights around, how can our lives be anything but full?!</font><br><br></div><br><br><br><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/155/8a5a55415a9baf28e03684776ee5263b/homep/images/1211804118">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 24 May 2008 23:14:29 +0530</pubDate><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/05/24/Glorious-NatureAs-I-glance-out-of-m.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><BR><br><br><br><BR><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/155/8a5a55415a9baf28e03684776ee5263b/homep/images/1208250295">]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 14:09:53 +0530</pubDate><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/15/.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<BR><br><br><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/155/8a5a55415a9baf28e03684776ee5263b/homep/images/1208250228">]]></description><pubDate>Tue, 15 Apr 2008 14:09:51 +0530</pubDate><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/15/.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<BR><span style="font-size: 16pt; font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);=""><font style="font-weight: bold;" size="5"><br><br><br><br><br><br><br><br>Revenge or Gandhigiri?</font><o:p></o:p></span><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);="">Yesterday evening, I was the victim of road rage of sorts. And, while my heart and soul sought revenge, I desisted from exacting it.</span></p><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);="">Let me tell you what happened. I was driving home from work. It was early evening and I was in the lane on the right, and right on track behind a bus. At a point slightly ahead, the road became single lane because of some road works. Suddenly from the left came this beaten up white Alto, driven by a young surd.</span><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""> The lad tried to nose his car between me and the bus. I just ignored him and continued in my lane. He tried to get in three or four times, getting more rash each time. Each time, I continued sticking to my lane, and my place behind the bus - unconcerned at his antics.</span><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);=""><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);=""><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);="">Immediately after the road works was this circle, where I was to turn left. The bus took a left turn and so did I. As the bus turned, this lad revved his engine and tried to get between us yet again. And once more I stuck to my guns. He had to slam on his brakes to avoid brushing my car.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);=""><o:p></o:p></span><br></p><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);="">About 200 meters ahead, the bus took a right turn and went away, while I continued straight down the road. By that time, this lad's car was tailgating my car. His ego must have been smarting so hard at not being allowed to butt in by a mere woman. I knew I should expect fireworks soon.</span></p><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);=""><o:p></o:p></span><br></p><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);="">As expected, this guy revved his engine, swung hard to the left lane, brought his car parallel to mine, stuck his head out of his car mouthed some things (not complimentary, i bet - but alas, the words lost their effect on me as my windows were rolled shut, and the AC and music system were on). He overtook my car from the left, and swerved hard into a position bang in front of my car. Then he deliberately slowed, forcing me to slow down. That's what I had expected... and that's exactly what he did.<o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);=""><o:p></o:p></span><br></p><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);="">I am generally cool up to a point, but when I see red, I see RED. I am a much better than average driver, and do not take incursions of this kind lightly. My first (gut) instinct was to teach this lad a lesson that he would not forget easily. I was capable of doing the same thing to him, and leading him slowly and straight into the police station - as I have done once in the past. [:P]<o:p></o:p></span><br></p><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);="">This time, strangely, although I was mad at his gumption, my next thoughts were 'Hey, look at that car'! It was so badly beaten up, and bore so many stamps of past encounters with immovable objects - dents, scratches, damaged paintwork, and rust showing through.<o:p></o:p></span><br></p><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);="">I consciously slowed my car to a crawl behind his. The fast track red blooded guy that he was, he could keep up to this slow pace for no more than 2 minutes, then he could bear it no more. Perhaps he felt I had given up, and feeling very happy (this is my wild guess) that he had taught the old biddy a lesson, he va va vroomed away.<o:p></o:p></span><br></p><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="" color:="" rgb(96,="" 96,="" 96);=""><span style="font-weight: bold;">Take home message</span>: The</span><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""> Appy of today is wiser than the Appy of yore. I pretended to be slower (dumber on the road) than I will ever be, and let him feel he had got the better of him. This act (gandhigiri of sorts?) was wiser in the long run. His badges warned me to steer clear and avoid a conflict through which I might have come out a victor, but could have left me with a hefty bill - that would have mighty well pleased him.<o:p></o:p></span><br></p><br style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);"><p style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif; color: rgb(0, 0, 0);" class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: 16pt;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><span style="font-weight: bold;">Moral</span>: While revenge is very sweet, sometimes it's wiser to give way to idiots. <span style="background-color: rgb(255, 255, 153); color: rgb(255, 0, 0);">:-)</span></span><br><BR></p><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/155/8a5a55415a9baf28e03684776ee5263b/homep/images/1208028342">]]></description><pubDate>Sat, 12 Apr 2008 23:30:25 +0530</pubDate><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/12/Revenge-orGandhigiri-Yesterda.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<BR><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/155/8a5a55415a9baf28e03684776ee5263b/homep/images/1207915750">]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 17:38:24 +0530</pubDate><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/11/.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<BR><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/155/8a5a55415a9baf28e03684776ee5263b/homep/images/1207915761">]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 11 Apr 2008 17:36:49 +0530</pubDate><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/04/11/.html</link></item><item><title></title><description><![CDATA[<BR><br><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><br><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><br><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><br></p><br><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><br></p><br><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><br></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><br><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><br><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><span style="font-weight: bold;"></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><span style="font-weight: bold;"><br></span></span></p><p style="text-align: center; font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><font style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" size="5"><span style="font-weight: bold;">CIRCUS</span></font><o:p></o:p></span></p><p style="text-align: center; font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" class="MsoNormal"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><o:p></o:p></span><br></p><p style="text-align: center; font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" class="MsoNormal"><font size="4"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="">Yesterday evening as I closed my art workshop<br>And headed for the Ring-a-ling circus" big top<br>Excitement built up in me as I waited for a bus to stop<br>And take me to see wild animals do a mean hip hop!</span></font></p><p style="text-align: center; font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" class="MsoNormal"><font size="4"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""></span><br></font></p><p style="text-align: center; font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" class="MsoNormal"><font size="4"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="">On the ride, I wondered if this thing is really fair<br>What if unfortunately humans too had lived in a lair<br>And were trapped and forced to hop in the air<br>Even beg for their food - just basic simple fare!<o:p></o:p></span></font></p><p style="text-align: center; font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" class="MsoNormal"><font size="4"><span style="" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;=""><o:p></o:p></span><br></font></p><p style="text-align: center;" class="MsoNormal"><font size="4"><span style="font-family: Verdana,Arial,Helvetica,sans-serif;" comic="" sans="" ms="" ;="">I realized just how awful we humans have become<br>In our hunger for power, we are so cruel to some<br>Who are like us animals too, often more wholesome<br>Oh to what a sad state of affairs has humanity come!</span></font><br></p><br><BR><br><img src="http://ri.rediffiland.com/homepimages/home7/155/8a5a55415a9baf28e03684776ee5263b/homep/images/1206706633">]]></description><pubDate>Fri, 28 Mar 2008 17:44:59 +0530</pubDate><link>http://breathlessant.rediffiland.com/blogs/2008/03/28/CIRCUS-Yesterday-evening.html</link></item></channel></rss>